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Archive - Ask The Expert

Welcome to the Ask The Expert archive.

Each week, we ask fans of Responsible Sports "What Would You Do?" in response to our weekly Responsible Sports Scenario Question. And many of you write in with scenario questions of your own! So we've asked Tina Syer, Associate Director at Positive Coaching Alliance, to answer one of your suggested questions each week.
Want to hear more from Tina? Read her previous responses below:

2012 Archive
2011 Archive
2010 Archive
2009 Archive


2012 Ask The Expert

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May 4, 2012 - Why Win At All Cost Culture Is Bad

April 27, 2012 - A Losing Season

April 20, 2012 - Handling Failure

April 13, 2012 - Punishment

April 6, 2012 - Should You Play Someone Who Is Feeling Sick

Mar 30, 2012 - Teammate Chemistry

Mar 23, 2012 - Conflicting Player Schedules

Mar 16, 2012 - The F-Word

March 09, 2012 - Changing Towns & Teams

March 2, 2012 - Handling Negative Coaches

February 24, 2012 - Coaching Your Own Child

February 17, 2012 - Training Outside of School Sports

February 10, 2011 - Penalty Prone Players

February 3, 2012 - Same Friends, Same Team

January 27, 2012 - Negative Parents In The Stands

January 20, 2012 - Commitment

January 13, 2012 - Individual Awards

January 6, 2012 - Parent Conflicts


2011 Ask The Expert

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December 23, 2011 - Starting Lineups

December 16, 2011 - Belittling Remarks

December 9, 2011 - Team Designation

December 2, 2011 - Effort Levels

November 25, 2011 - The Coach's Kid

November 11, 2011 - Team Trophies

November 4, 2011 - Talking About Scheduling Issues

October 28, 2011 - Setting Limits

October 21, 2011 -Supporting Your Child

October 14, 2011 - Handling An 'Intense' Coach

October 7, 2011 - Effects Of Tardiness In Sports

September 30, 2011 - Stopping The Sports Bully

September 23, 2011 - Limits to Playing

September 16, 2011 - Child's Nervousness

September 9, 2011 - Coaching Your Own Kid

August 26, 2011 - Player With Special Needs

August 19, 2011 - Player Recovery

August 12, 2011 - Crossing The Line

August 5, 2011 - Humiliation Coaching

July 29, 2011 - Unruly Parents

July 22, 2011 - Bad Camp Experience

July 15, 2011 - Grabbing the Facemask

July 8, 2011 - Poor Coaching

July 1, 2011 - Overzealous Coach

June 24, 2011 - Emotional Tank

June 17, 2011 - Coach Job Interview

June 10, 2011 - Discussion between Coach and Kid

June 3, 2011 - Player's Stats Mistakes

May 27, 2011 - Racism Among Kids

May 20, 2011 - Kid Motivation

May 13, 2011 - Mastery Focus

May 6, 2011 - Child Safety First

April 29, 2011 - Advising the Coach

April 22, 2011 - Dealing with Parent's Bad Behavior

April 15, 2011 - Parent's Support

April 8, 2011 - Effort vs Punishment

March 25, 2011 - Parent's Bad Behavior

March 18, 2011 - Passion of the Sport

March 11, 2011 - Interest in Sports

March 4, 2011 - Being Competitive

Febuary 18, 2011 - Your Staff

February 11, 2011 - Coach's Standards

February 4, 2011 - Stop Playing

January 28, 2011 - Adversity

January 21, 2011 - Love of the Game

January 14, 2011 - Time to Focus

January 7, 2011 -Kid's Bad Behavior


2010 Ask The Expert

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December 24, 2010 - Coach and Parent

December 17, 2010 - Sports Program

December 10, 2010 -Kids Injury

December 3, 2010 - Parents Behavior

November 24, 2010 - Coach's Bad Behavior

November 19, 2011 - Promoting Talent

November 12, 2011 -Love of the Sport

November 5, 2011 - Coach and Parent

October 29, 2010 - Safety Concerns

October 15, 2010 - Commitment

October 1, 2010 - Addressing Skill Level and Negativity

October 1, 2010 - How long should I support my Daughters Softball Career

August 20, 2010 - What do I say after wrongfully accusing a player of poor sportsmanship?

August 13, 2010 - What are the legal ramifications of a player getting hurt?

August 6, 2010 - Should my daughter join an A team?

July 30, 2010 - How do I handle player favoritism at the U8 level?

July 23, 2010 - How do I handle an aggressive assistant coach?

July 16, 2010 - How do I help my daughter deal with her first cut?

July 9, 2010 - How do I pass the reigns to another coach?

July 2, 2010 - How should I coach my team after they lose a lead?

June 25, 2010 - What do I tell my team who has to play older competition?

June 18, 2010 - Should I say anything to a disruptive parent?

June 11, 2010 - How should I address a coach who thinks my son is a "diver"?

June 4, 2010 - Is it appropriate to use game footage at the youth level?

May 21, 2010 - What's the best way to coach "mentally challenged" players?

May 14, 2010 - My daughter got in trouble for supporting another team

May 7, 2010 - How do I deal with my players' emotional responses?

April 30, 2010 - How do I handle a player missing practice for tutoring?

April 23, 2010 - What should I say to parents bailing on our team's tournament?

April 16, 2010 - Should I Talk to the Coach Who Bullies Players?

April 9, 2010 - How do I handle the coach segregating our team?

April 2, 2010 - My daughter's coach changes his mind about playing time

March 26, 2010 - Should I confront a coach teaching dirty plays?

March 19, 2010 - How do I deal with a cursing parent?

March 12, 2010 - How do I deal with disrespectful players?

March 5, 2010 - How do I motivate my daughter to give 100%?

Febuary 26, 2010 - Multi-lingual team uses vulgar language

Febuary 19, 2010 - My son missed a game-winning field goal

Febuary 12, 2010 - Parent Comments

Febuary 5, 2010 - My Child Never Gets To Play

January 29, 2010 - Winning vs. Player Development

January 22, 2010 - Concussions

January 15, 2010 - Coach Cut

January 8, 2010 - Drinking issues


2009 Ask The Expert

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December 18, 2009 - Player Discipline

December 11, 2009 - Dirty Play

December 4, 2009 - Coaching Your Own

November 27, 2009 - Dangerous Play

November 20, 2009 - Required Practice

November 13, 2009 - Foul Language

November 6, 2009 - Benched

October 30, 2009 - Coaching Levels

October 16, 2009 - Warm-Up

October 9, 2009 - Mistakes

October 2, 2009 - Burnout

September 25, 2009 - Full Games

September 18, 2009 - Shave Bat

September 11, 2009 - Parents Coaching

September 1, 2009 - Proper Punishment

August 21, 2009 - 11 vs. 8

August 14, 2009 - Respecting Teamates

August 7, 2009 - Preseason Policies

July 31, 2009 - Heat Safety

July 24, 2009 - Effort at Practice

July 10, 2009 - Coach Promises

July 3, 2009 - Officials

June 26, 2009 - Practice Talk

June 19, 2009 - Self-Talk

June 12, 2009 - Commitment

June 5, 2009 - Player Input

May 29, 2009 - Intervention

May 15, 2009 - Playing Time

May 8, 2009 - Team Performance


Tina Syer Ask the Expert
Tina Syer is the Chief Impact Officer for Positive Coaching Alliance, a nonprofit founded in the Stanford University Athletic Department. Tina played Division I field hockey at Stanford University, where she graduated with honors in psychology and was named an Academic All-American.

Her twelve years of work for PCA have included keynote presentations for national organizations such as US Lacrosse, USA Water Polo and Special Olympics, more than 250 PCA workshop presentations, and production of multimedia products featuring PCA's National Spokesperson, Phil Jackson. Tina's coaching experience includes seasons at the high school, college and Olympic Development levels.

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